Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Debt

Debt is a very heavy word. Before you jump the gun and begin to think that I'm talking about money, let me clarify that I'm not. No matter how strong you are mentally, physically or financially, sometimes, circumstances so arise that you end up taking a debt from someone, in some form or the other. Let me narrate a small incident. 

In 2009, I had no full-time job and my wife was pregnant. I used to struggle going around the city from one center to another taking classes for CAT/MBA aspirants at a leading training company. I had a class at 9.00 am at Ameerpet, which is about 16 kms from my place. At 8.15, I discovered my bike had conked. It didn't start even after trying very hard, leaving me all sweaty and tired. I decided to go by auto. By that time, it was 8.30. As i wiped my sweat, breathed heavy and walked out of the gate, I knew I was going to be late and a class of 40 students would be waiting. I was sure I'd be late. And late to class had some serious consequences. Just as I turned back to say 'Bye' to my wife, a black colored Palio came and slowed down beside me. I quickly realized it was my neighbor, a gentleman who lived in the house opposite to our apartment. We had facing balconies. Sometimes, I used to say 'Hi' to him. And that's it. 

He lowered the window and said, 'Bike problem hai kya? Mai dekh raha tha. Chalo i'll drop you...which side are you going?'
I said, 'Yeah, some problem. Thank you very much,' and got into the car.
'I have to go to Ameerpet, You can drop me at Paradise,' I said. 
'Oh, i can drop you till Begumpet,' he said and then, a sense of calm prevailed in me. 

On the way, we spoke a lot. I told him how I had ended up teaching in time of the recession and all. He also told me about his work, etc. When we were 1 km away from Begumpet, I asked him, 'Where is your office?' He said, 'Basheerbagh'. His answer shocked me. I was dumbstruck for a while. Basheerbagh was not even close to that route. He had taken a complete detour of the city in peak traffic just to help me. He didn't even know I was getting late for the class.  I thanked him profusely and got down feeling very happy that there are people who go out of the way to help others. 

I was just 5 minutes late to the class. I don't know what I taught the students that day for I was totally engulfed in a rare satisfaction of having met a fine gentleman. I decided to keep in touch with him. Every time he walked his dog, or appeared in the balcony or while washing his car, I ensured I said 'hello' to him and smiled. 

Months passed. I got a good job and life got busy. In 2010, on a Sunday, I saw an ambulance standing in front of his house. The ambulance looked old. Suddenly a flash of all different kinds of thoughts appeared on my mind. I saw no one. I immediately wore a shirt and walked downstairs. I thought it was their dog. But when I walked inside his house, I saw his mother sitting in one corner still like a statue with despair in her eyes. I saw him speaking on phone. At the center of the hall, I saw his father's dead body on the floor on a mat. There was an ice-box which they connected to the power and it started working.

The ambulance driver said, 'uthao,' and pointed to the body. There was no one else in the room. Without a second thought, I volunteered and helped them lift the body from one side and placed the departed man in the ice-box. I stayed there for 30 more minutes until their relatives and friends started coming. I hugged him, condoled him and said, 'Let me know in case you need anything' and walked out. 
Being present at the right time at the right place in such a time when no one else was around is no coincidence. It takes more than just rational thought. In my most distressed hour, he had come to my rescue. I was under his debt. God made me repay it. We have vacated that apartment. Now we live four buildings away. I don't see him as much as I used to. And you know what is the most ironic thing about this incident? I never asked for his name and neither did he ask for mine. I still don't know his name. Whenever I see him, I just say 'Hello' to him and smile.  

- Deepak Karamungikar

16 comments:

Harishankar said...

Fantastic I loved the way u narrated. Yes indeed i m also debt to lot of my friends.

rajasekhar said...

Manchinga vundhi Mama

Venkat Parthasarathy said...

The debt of life in a way makes us realise how we accept people in totality of what they are and not what we expect them to be...

Your un-named "friend" and his 'friend' whose name he knows not, are just another of those people who make the World a better place!

Kudos for posting this! It reaffirms my faith in "Maanava seve Madhava seva" (Service to Humanity is service to God)...

Our selfless deeds are what bring us cheer!

Its circle of Life ~ Altruism is Living!

Touched!

Me Inc said...

Excellent post ! My mom keeps telling that every person coming into our lives has some debt/Runam. Some relationships and bonds are quite unconventional but they tick. Maybe its because of this thing called "Debt".

Also sometimes its not a deed, it could well be a small encouraging word from someone that makes us feel so indebted to them.

Totally touched. Thanks for posting such stuff !

రవి said...

మీ కత్తికి రెండు వైపులా పదునుంది సార్.... సెటైర్ ఎంత సూటిగా వుంటుందో సున్నితమైన భావోద్వేగాలు కూడా అంతే బాగా పండిస్తారు

Anonymous said...

Nicely put... Have been on both sides of the equation and can certainly relate to it.

--Jam

Ruchika said...

what we receive in life we have to submit it before we leave.....nice story.

Anirudh Reddy Koppula said...

Your as usual form and flow...Just keep it going ;)

Meena said...

Truly moving! The world is not such a bad place after all. People are not bad or good, I guess it is the situation that compels them to become what they are! Keep posting!

Anonymous said...

well said about 'debt'.
We, in this world share many such relations which we cannot name,because we feel they are dearer to the almighty himself !
We know this happens every day - Earth is in debt to Sun.But sun never says 'you owe me'.This love only brings joy enough to light up whole sky.pretty unconditional!
your writings will bring such 'joy'.
keep up the good work !

pavan kumar mudiraj said...

inspiring baya... & asusual ending was superb

praveen kumar arunala said...

Touching...No words to say...

Anonymous said...

Touched. Very nice.

Anonymous said...

Annayya... Fantastic... chaala baavundi... narration heart touching gaa undi. entha vishayam unna... cheppe vidhaanam baga lekapothe waste kada... meeru narrate chesina vidham simply superb.

Jeevitham lo entho mandiki manam manaku theliyakundaane runapaid potham. avanni ganapakam thechukunela chesaru. meeru rasina purpose emaina adi 100% purity tho undi. thanks for the story..once again best wishes from me...Karuna Kumar

Haritha said...

Very Touching!! My dad always believed this and he helped everyone. In a Similar kind of situation my dad met a person whom he helped about 20years back and that person recognized my dad and told the incident which took place , i was so happy to hear that story from my dad just a few days back !!

Vjta said...

Touching ! As goes a saying " Ppl may forget ur words, ppl may forget ur actions, but they'll never forget how u made them FEEL ! "